Posts by stan livedeath

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Certain JWs

by Holden Caufield in

do you ever miss jw's as an ex jw..

stan livedeath

i miss 2 of my 3 kids. now in their 40's.

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JW Phrases

by Holden Caufield in

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friends

what some jw phrases that you hate?.

i was driving along through a quiet neighborhood on a saturday morning ( yesterday )and , looky-looky, two dubs.i recognized one of them, complete asshole, exbethelite, can i say his name?it's not important.i rolled up, downed the window and "hey!

"they spun around and i continued, "what are you going to do about all those pedophile lawsuits all over the world?

the two witness rule is wrong and so are you!

stan livedeath

i can fully understand kairos's anger at the jw's..his marriage has been ruined and whole life has been turned upside down.

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Do You Ever Wonder Where Certain Posters Are?

by minimus in

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friends

do people simply leave because the site has given them what they wanted?

are they now infrequent lurkers?.

did they go back to the watchtower?.

stan livedeath

i think jgnat had a row on here and left.

i sometimes wonder if the cult still has some bizarre hold on me--by me logging in on here most days,,,?

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2 mothers---2 sons.

by stan livedeath in

first mother...a friend of mine--in her 60's.. her son--is 42. he is less than useless.

his last long term relationship ended 3 years ago when his wife to be called off the wedding and kicked him out of her house.

he went back to live with his mummy--rent free.

stan livedeath

first mother...a friend of mine--in her 60's.

her son--is 42. he is less than useless. his last long term relationship ended 3 years ago when his wife to be called off the wedding and kicked him out of her house. he went back to live with his mummy--rent free. he cant hold a job for more than a few days. he has a crack cocaine habit. he has bled his mother dry scrounging money to feed his habit. she wont refuse him because he has told her he owes money to his dealers and will end up face down if he doesnt pay up. what else can she do ?

second mother--is my first wife--also in her 60's.

our son is also 42. he and his second wife have a successful business and a quality lifestyle. a lovely son--now 3 yrs 6 months---a very nice house with land in the New Forest UK...and just got back from yet another holiday--Barbados

his mother must be very proud of him.

err--no. She shuns him--has nothing to do with him--why ? because he decided her religion wasnt for him and got disfellowshipped. he hasnt looked back.

i am very proud of him--and will be with them at christmas.

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Just a Rant .......

by LOLS in

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friends

hi beautiful people ..... so today is my wedding anniversary ....... .

and first of all my dear husband forgot again .... which is normal according to my dear old dad "it's a man thing " .

but to add insult to injury , i must wait till friday to be taken out for dinner , because low & behold my jdub husband can't miss one bloody jw meeting !

stan livedeath

It's about time you removed his privileges

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Is there a surge in "Upwakers"?

by Phizzy in

the stupid word in the topic title is a piss-take on the bloody silly jw word "needgreaters" that i have seen them use.. but my question is genuine, i know it is a cyclical thing, we get what seems to be a lot of newbies, and then things quieten down, but not just on here, elsewhere on social media i am seeing stories of people finding the courage to leave, having woken up for a variety of reasons, but usually the child abuse scandal, and the spiteful, judgmental nature of many jw's, who, though supposedly friends, will run off to the elders to snitch on you, not talk to you.

is their a real increase in those leaving ?

i do hope so, so many more finding real freedom and happiness !.

stan livedeath

I miss-read it..as upwankers

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Is there a surge in "Upwakers"?

by Phizzy in

the stupid word in the topic title is a piss-take on the bloody silly jw word "needgreaters" that i have seen them use.. but my question is genuine, i know it is a cyclical thing, we get what seems to be a lot of newbies, and then things quieten down, but not just on here, elsewhere on social media i am seeing stories of people finding the courage to leave, having woken up for a variety of reasons, but usually the child abuse scandal, and the spiteful, judgmental nature of many jw's, who, though supposedly friends, will run off to the elders to snitch on you, not talk to you.

is their a real increase in those leaving ?

i do hope so, so many more finding real freedom and happiness !.

stan livedeath

i doubt if the child abuse scandal affects most dubs--after all--its only apostate lies.

but the loss of their own kingdom hall--which they saved up for and have been paying for years--now that will hit hard.

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It would be nice if this forum went back to the basics

by nowwhat? in

not to offend or impose my opinion.

but simply i would like to see just news and insights from the local congregation to the top organization level of: downsizing, closings, c.s.a.

personal experiences,unscriptural doctrines of the org.and direct commentary of the above.

stan livedeath

i'm selective about what i read. if a see a scripture quoted--i'm out.

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Just About To Leave For My Work's Christmas Party

by pale.emperor in

it's my work's christmas parts this evening.

just getting myself ready for it and decided to wear a suit rather than casual shirt and pants.

it's funny because i've just noticed that i now only own one suit.

stan livedeath

hey P E its good to see you are moving on with your life!